hated?hating? whis is hurt?

someone ask me about hating or being hated? which is more hurting???  actually guys... its okey being hated... if people hates  us..thts mean u are rival to them..dont bother to be hated... let people with their self.... who cares???

hating: if we hating someone.. the one who hurt is our self... our self angry,then kicking something can make u satisfied..but that cant be helped... b'cos. we still hating... look in ourself? are we perfect enough to hates someone?       you decide....hating or to be hated???